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Marriage Strike

Stay away from American women

Top Ten Reasons Why American Women Suck

 

If you do not want to deal with the following 'Marriage Strike' than you must stay away from American, Australian women and stick to women from Africa, Asia, Europe, and Latin America. 

An American (US born women) woman with an Italian born mother told me that 90 percent of Australian & American women are crap.  She became a naturalized Australian citizen before she moved back the United States. 

 

There are some good American women, like the Hispanic (Spanish speaking community), Michelle Obama and US diplomats that work for the US State department.   They are submissive women and are still raised in the same close not family structure of the 1950’s. 

 

The only reason why American women want to have sex is in order to get 18 years of court ordered child support and use 9/10 of it on them selves.     

 

Lawyers say that it is better to only have a low paying job, and have a child support order of only, $15.00 a month that it is to have a high paying job, and have a child support order of $250,000.00 a month that will not lower if you voluntary drop to your income $1,000.00 a month. This is because child support will be high than your income and you could go to jail lose your job, have no income and have a debt that can never be paid of. 

 

Only if the father lives in Australia, Canada, and the Untied States, can a mother get child support enforced by handling the father as a criminal, while at the same time deny him his parental rights.    The same goes for national of those countries who have sex in other countries that have a child support treaty.   Click here for the list of US Federal and State child support treaties.   Click here for an example with Germany.      In most countries in the world the mother cannot get child support enforced, if she is not willing to give the father equal parenting time.   

 

Update: Variations of Marriage Strike
Due to the fear of predicaments around marriage and divorce, there are also other life style behaviors closely associated with Marriage Strike.
- Birth Strike. In some jurisdictions (ie Canada), pregnancy/birth automatically grant your girlfriend the same legal status as a wife. Consequently, men practice Birth Strike with their romantic partner, refusing to allow pregnancy.
- Breakup. In some jurisdictions, prolonged co-habitation result in automatic recognition of marital status for legal purposes. Some men routinely breakup to avoid such status. Although it is unclear if they simply enjoy "playing women".
- Expatriation. Dissatisfied by the perceived corruption of the local female population, some men intentionally marry women not native to his nation. Some travel to another country for marriage, some marry foreigners on working visa. While this is not a strike to marriage, it is a boycott against the domestic supply of women.

 

Courtesy:  http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=149553

 

A 'Marriage Strike' Emerges As Men Decide Not To Risk Loss

The Philadelphia Inquirer ^ | July 5, 2002 | Glenn Sacks and Dianna Thompson

Posted on Saturday, July 06, 2002 8:00:19 AM by buccaneer81

 

A 'marriage strike' emerges as men decide not to risk loss

By Glenn Sacks and Dianna Thompson

 

Katherine is attractive, successful, witty, and educated. She also can't find a husband. Why? Because most of the men this thirtysomething software analyst dates do not want to get married. These men have Peter Pan syndrome: They refuse to commit, refuse to settle down, and refuse to "grow up."

 

However, given the family court policies and divorce trends of today, Peter Pan is no naive boy, but instead a wise man.

 

"Why should I get married and have kids when I could lose those kids and most of what I've worked for at a moment's notice?" asks Dan, a 31-year-old power plant technician who says he will never marry.

 

"I've seen it happen to many of my friends. I know guys who came home one day to an empty house or apartment - wife gone, kids gone. They never saw it coming. Some of them were never able to see their kids regularly again."

 

Census figures suggest that the marriage rate in the United States has dipped 40 percent during the last four decades to its lowest point since the rate was measured. There are many plausible explanations for this trend, but one of the least mentioned is that American men, in the face of a family court system hopelessly stacked against them, have subconsciously launched a "marriage strike."

 

It is not difficult to see why. Let's say that Dan defies Peter Pan, marries Katherine, and has two children. There is a 50 percent likelihood that this marriage will end in divorce within eight years, and if it does, the odds are 2-1 it will be Katherine, not Dan, who initiates the divorce. It may not matter that Dan was a decent husband. Studies show that few divorces are initiated over abuse or because the man has already abandoned the family. Nor is adultery cited as a factor by divorcing women appreciably more than by divorcing men.

 

While the courts may grant Dan and Katherine joint legal custody, the odds are overwhelming that it is Katherine, not Dan, who will win physical custody. Overnight, Dan, accustomed to seeing his kids every day and being an integral part of their lives, will become a "14 percent dad" - a father who is allowed to spend only one out of every seven days with his own children.

Once Katherine and Dan are divorced, odds are at least even that Katherine will interfere with Dan's visitation rights.

 

Three-quarters of divorced men surveyed say their ex-wives have interfered with their visitation, and 40 percent of mothers studied admitted that they had done so, and that they had generally acted out of spite or in order to punish their exes.

 

Katherine will keep the house and most of the couple's assets. Dan will need to set up a new residence and pay at least a third of his take-home pay to Katherine in child support.

As bad as all of this is, it would still make Dan one of the lucky ones. After all, he could be one of those fathers who cannot see his children at all because his ex has made a false accusation of domestic violence, child abuse, or child molestation. Or a father who can only see his own children under supervised visitation or in nightmarish visitation centers where dads are treated like criminals.

He could be one of those fathers whose ex has moved their children hundreds or thousands of miles away, in violation of court orders, which courts often do not enforce. He could be one of those fathers who tears up his life and career again and again in order to follow his children, only to have his ex-wife continually move them.

 

He could be one of the fathers who has lost his job, seen his income drop, or suffered a disabling injury, only to have child support arrearages and interest pile up to create a mountain of debt which he could never hope to pay off. Or a father who is forced to pay 70 percent or 80 percent of his income in child support because the court has imputed an unrealistic income to him. Or a dad who suffers from one of the child support enforcement system's endless and difficult to correct errors, or who is jailed because he cannot keep up with his payments. Or a dad who reaches old age impoverished because he lost everything he had in a divorce when he was middle-aged and did not have the time and the opportunity to earn it back.

 

"It's a shame," Dan says. "I always wanted to be a father and have a family. But unless the laws change and give fathers the same right to be a part of their children's lives as mothers have, it just isn't worth the risk."

 

Courtesy:  http://www.glennsacks.com/have_antifather_family.htm

 

Section 51.70 (a) (8) of Title 22 of the Code of Federal Regulations states, in part, that if you are certified to Passport Services by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) to be in arrears of child support payments in excess of $2,500, you are ineligible to receive a U.S. passport. If this applies to you, Passport Services strongly recommends that you contact the appropriate State child support enforcement agency to make payment arrangements before applying for a passport.

 

The divorce rate for American men who marry American women: 57% (officially). But since the figures from several states (including California) are excluded, the true national divorce rate is likely
closer to 65%. The divorce rate in California is over 70%.

The divorce rate for American men who marry foreign women: approximately 20%.

So you can marry an American woman and have a close to two-thirds chance of getting divorced, or you can marry a foreign woman and have at least a 75% chance of success.